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Virginia Rosso

 

in the kitchen with my Roman 'mother'
by Diana Serbe

Memory denies a clear picture of her. No photo exists, but the essence remains. I see the black stockings rolled above the knee, the square solid lines, the dark eyes that saw everything. She was a survivor of war-torn Italy. She knew what was real. Food was real. And her food was authentic Roman cooking.

We were living in Rome which would be our home for two years. She arrived to help with my children, both under two years old. Though I had studied professional cooking, I was a novice to the Italian kitchen. I was having fun in the kitchen. I didn't need or want any help. But Virginia knew the secrets of the nonnas (grandmothers) and she slowly joined me in the kitchen where she taught me the heart and soul of Italian food.

She didn't need a cookbook. While I diligently measured ingredients for a spaghetti carbonara, she would look, make a face and give me the secret to keep the sauce white and fresh. She taught me to cook pork in milk bath, a concept that I found awful until I tasted it. Her kitchen wasted nothing. I grew to love the bubbly sight and smell of fresh pea pod soup. She introduced me to puntarelle, a Roman specialty that I dream about.

Together we cooked stuffed artichokes with capers and bread crumbs from day old bread. Her Bolognese sauce with tortellini remains the best I have ever tasted.

Love and patience were her main characteristics. They were also the ingredients of the best applesauce for baby ever made.

Thank you, Virginia. You changed my life.

 

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2001

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